DEAR ANGELA: My boyfriend told me that he thinks he’s gay. I love him, so I don’t want him to be gay, obviously – but I’m unsure what role I should play in his discovery process.
Be kind. He has a tough road ahead. Also, in my experience when a man thinks he’s gay it’s usually because he is gay. So the other role you should play is developing a new type of love for him that doesn’t include romance.