We’re ashamed about things, so we hide them. We’re embarrassed about things, so we hide them. These secret monsters control our actions and in many instances define how we feel about ourselves.
Take whatever secret you have that is acting as your puppeteer and keeping you from your full potential and tell someone (a religious leader, a trusted friend, a parent.)
It’s a scary thing to do, but it brings the secret into the light, where you can see it better, where you can can put it into proper perspective, and where – with time and effort – you can own or conquer it.